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August 18, 2023 · In: Motherhood, Travel

Yufu Child Farm – Family friendly Farm Stay in the Japan Countryside

Finding this gem of a family friendly farm stay in the Japan countryside was a major highlight of our Kyushu trip. In this post, I share about our 3 day 2…

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At the Chias - travel with kids in Hanoi Ninh Binh Vietnam

August 1, 2023 · In: Motherhood, Travel

5 tips to love travel with kids, from experienced travellers

At this point, we’ve taken eight international trips with kids since becoming parents, seven of which were with two young children. Mr 3 is turning four in a few months,…

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At the Chias - Kyushu with kids, standing under the Nabegataki Falls

August 1, 2023 · In: Motherhood, Travel

One week in Kyushu with kids – slow, local and nature-filled

Our trip to Kyushu with kids (ours were 1.5yo and 3.5yo at the time of travel) marked our 1.5yo daughter’s sixth set of flights. Needless to say, the kids are…

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For years I was wired toward efficiency. Every wee For years I was wired toward efficiency. Every week had an overall plan, and each day was taken in blocks. The school holidays, in particular, required precision planning — scheduling holiday activities then deconflicting meetings to ensure they don’t overlap with pick-up and drop-off timings, ordering enough snacks and making plans for each meal, strategically taking leave days for travel. 

This was how we survived, even thrived, in the past years. 

This year, as the holidays approached I started to think about what we needed to plan. 

Nothing. We didn’t need to plan anything, because time is ours now. 

What a privilege. And yet, how does one best steward it without falling into the “productivity” trap? What if I start to feel like we’re “wasting our time” without a detailed plan?

I recently took the kids to Gardens by the Bay and set us one objective: to choose a flower and use our coloured pencils to best replicate the colour of that chosen flower on paper. A full excursion with a simple, singular objective. A quiet protest against optimising the outing by getting as much as possible. A test of my own grit and commitment to this cause. 

The kids did brilliantly. They found a very random flower, plonked themselves down, and got to work. I stood around awkwardly. 

When they were done, they said we could leave. And so, silencing my internal voice that “we’ve barely seen anything”, we left. 

As I walked off with all three kids in tow, it struck me. It had been one of the easiest and most delightful outings we’d had in a while. Perhaps inefficiency does have its place. And sometimes, that place is delight.
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Perhaps the extended time away will dent his year-end bonus, but for sure it has already added truckloads to the relationship bonuses in our family, and its impact will be felt for many years to come. 

Fatherhood in this day and age is increasingly complex, with the expectation that they would be more involved on the home-front, yet without any regard for how that would affect the work-front. When they want to step up, they are often gaslighted and pushed aside in favour of the mother as default parent. Not to mention, many are coming from a childhood of their own where they didn’t have much of a (positive) relationship with their own father. Talk about breaking cycles. 

Celebrating fatherhood and the sweet two months of paternity leave we enjoyed 😭💕
April was made up of many moments with friends, le April was made up of many moments with friends, learning about relating to the world, and to each other. We are all growing — in learning to care for one another better, in pushing through the tough moments, and in knowing when to step back to watch things naturally unfold. Much to be thankful for. 

April was also marked by lack of sleep. Hope that gets better soon!
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